This is our first attempt at a blog. It has been suggested by a couple individuals that this would be a good way to communicate our journey through dealing with breast cancer without our friends, family and acquaintances without having to explain it multiple times. Some of you have expressed concern that you don’t know when it is appropriate to call or ask questions and this should alleviate those concerns. From our point of view, this format allows us to explain the process as well as express those emotions that we would not put into letters or email and we will have a personal journal of our progress. So here goes…..
Based on an annual mammogram we were referred to a specialist. We got the diagnosis of Invasive Ductal Carcinoma of the breast …. Breast Cancer! This began a whirlwind of appointments and biopsies bringing us to this point. What we know as of today is that one breast has cancer that has spread into the lymph nodes. The opposite breast has a benign tumor as well. Tomorrow (Monday) is the “big day” for us…. SURGERY. Vonnie will have a mastectomy on one side which will include the lymph nodes and will have an excision of the growth in the opposite breast. The surgeon will be working along with a plastic surgeon who will begin the reconstruction process.
So, that brings things up to date. We will try our best to keep this site current. Thanks to all who have expressed their concern and love. We covet your prayers. Keep them coming! God is good and we WILL get through this.
Posted by Len
10 comments:
Hello Len and Vonnie...
I just wanted to say that you have been in my thoughts and prayers all weekend (and since I found out). I am not sure if you would remember me or not, but I am a friend of Julie's from high school. Vonnie...you might remember the "Calvin" face painting before we traveled to the big game when CCHS won state. :) You have an incredible daughter who is rallying behind you. I will be thinking of you guys tomorrow and praying for the best outcome possible. You are in God's hands and there is no better place to be. Take care... Chris (Poll) Mulder
V and Len,
Marge and I are saying prayers for each of you daily. Times will be tough, but we'll be riding together soon enough and having more fun on the tandem's.
God Bless both of you, and know that we are with you in prayer.
Jerry and Marge
David and I will have you in our thoughts and prayers throughout the day tomorrow. May the surgeons be guided by the master surgeon and healer. May your positive spirit will bring you strength. Keep peddling even when the ride is uphill. Blessings,
David and Cathy
Bev and I are rooting for you both and will be watching this space. Thanks for everything you do, and everything you've ever done for your friends...you're topmost in our thoughts.
"Courage: Be STRONG and COURAGEOUS. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."
We love you mom.
Vonnie & Len,
You will all contine to be in my prayers. Having learned of your diagnosis from daughter Julie, who shared with daughter Jen, I understand completely the journey you are starting on. Shock, fear, and the unkown can create a overwelming feeling of emotions.
When this is all behind you, I can only enourage you in how much your relationship with Jesus will grow, how strong you will become and the encouragement you will be able to share. I tried to remind myself too, that how I was handling this challenge in my life today, others, especially any non-believers, they would be watching me and what "my" God would be doing in my life. I wanted them to want what I had! See, God is using you already.
Know I will take time to pray especially today at 4pm for, you, Len, your family and the doctors.
God Bless,
Len & Vonnie, Someone once told me it's easier to climb the hills with a smile on your face . . . they never said anything about mountains though. We know what kind of hill climbers you are and we're confident you'll make it to the top of this mountain.
We're thankful that there are so many breast cancer survivors nowdays and we know you will be joining this group! We love you both.
You're tougher than this cancer! We've all got a lot more miles to ride. Hang in there and get well so we can get out and do it. Steve and Kris
Vonnie and Len,
I am so glad you began this blog. I know I slept better knowing Vonnie was done with her surgery. How was the cot, Len? Maybe when you get home, Vonnie, you'll be able to rest without doctors interrupting you. I am glad they are checking on you, however. So, this would be my advice: Don't let the pain get the better of you. That's why they make meds, just ask Len. Your energy needs to go toward relaxing and healing, rather than trying to fight the discomfort yourself and be a tough cookie! We already know you are strong. Dinah and my Julie laughed at me when I would deny being in pain, but about 15 minutes late would get all teary on them. You know what a crier I am anyway, but I just think the overall discomfort was wearing on my stamina for a while. I like the analogy of continuing to peddle on the uphill and right now, Vonnie and Len, you have a whole team of people running alongside you ready to help push that bike up the mountain! Hope they gave you delicious food after so long a wait!
Love from your breast cancer survivor friend,
Donna
Vonnie & Len - you both have been in our thoughts and prayers. We are sending as many "good vibes" to you both as we can. I know we all will be out riding soon.
I agree with the comments about taking the pain meds, and letting them help you with your recovery. You're strong mentally and physically, but let the science you know help you be that way.
Penny & Pat
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